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Parenting Plans vs Consent Orders: Which is Best for Your Family?

Navigating the complexities of family life after separation can be challenging, especially when it comes to making decisions about the care and upbringing of your children.


Parents often face the choice between drafting a Parenting Plan or applying for Consent Orders. Understanding the differences between these two options can help you determine which is best for your family’s unique needs, whether you live in Brisbane or further abroad.


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Parenting Plans: Flexible and Informal 


A Parenting Plan is a written agreement between separated parents outlining how they will manage parenting responsibilities and arrangements for their children. It's an informal document that can cover a wide range of topics, including: 


  • Living Arrangements: Where the child will live and how time will be divided between parents. 

  • Education: Decisions regarding school choices and extracurricular activities. 

  • Health: Arrangements for medical and dental care. 

  • Communication: How and when parents will communicate with each other and with their child. 


Pros of Parenting Plans: 

  • Flexibility: Parenting Plans can be easily updated as circumstances change, providing a more adaptable approach. 

  • Cost-Effective: They are generally less expensive to create compared to Consent Orders. 

  • Less Formal: Since they are not legally binding, Parenting Plans can be a less intimidating option for parents who are in agreement but want to outline their arrangements. 


Cons of Parenting Plans: 

  • Not Legally Binding: Unlike Consent Orders, Parenting Plans do not have the force of law behind them, which means they are not enforceable by the court. This could be a drawback if one parent does not adhere to the agreed terms. 


Consent Orders: Legal and Enforceable 


Consent Orders are a formal legal agreement that is approved by the Family Court. They are designed to provide a legally binding resolution to parenting disputes and are enforceable by law. Key features of Consent Orders include: 


  • Legal Enforceability: Once approved by the court, Consent Orders have the same legal effect as a court order made after a hearing. 

  • Specificity: They provide clear and precise details about parenting arrangements, reducing the likelihood of future disputes. 

  • Court Approval: Consent Orders require court approval, which ensures that the arrangements are in the best interests of the child and comply with legal standards. 


Pros of Consent Orders: 

  • Legally Binding: They are enforceable by law, offering greater security and a clear recourse if the terms are not followed. 

  • Stability: Provides a more stable and formal arrangement, which can be beneficial for children’s security and consistency. 

  • Court Supervision: The court reviews and approves the terms, ensuring they meet legal requirements and are in the child's best interests. 


Cons of Consent Orders: 

  • Formal Process: The process can be more complex and time-consuming than creating a Parenting Plan. 

  • Cost: There are legal fees involved in applying for Consent Orders, which can be higher than drafting a Parenting Plan. 

  • Less Flexibility: Once approved, making changes to Consent Orders can be more difficult and may require further court involvement. 


Which Option is Best for Your Family? 


Choosing between a Parenting Plan and Consent Orders depends on your family’s specific situation. If you and your ex-partner can communicate effectively and are likely to remain amicable, a Parenting Plan may be sufficient and offer the flexibility you need.


However, if you anticipate ongoing disputes or need a more formal arrangement, Consent Orders might be the better choice for ensuring that your agreements are upheld and legally enforceable. 


Seeking advice from and experienced lawyer can provide valuable guidance tailored to your circumstances.


Our family lawyers in Brisbane at Drakos & Company Solicitors can help you navigate these options, ensuring that you make the best decisions for your family’s needs. 


Need Confidential Assistance? 

For personalised advice and professional assistance with Parenting Plans or Consent Orders, contact Drakos & Company Solicitors.


Our experienced family lawyers are here to support you through every step of the process, providing the guidance necessary to secure a favourable outcome for your family.


Reach out to us today to schedule a consultation and take the first step towards achieving peace of mind and stability for your children.

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